wellyouknow:
shackleford90:
So one thing I’ve observed over the years, is that a lot of women (whether they know it or not) love to be treated like crap. They’ll date a guy who belittles them and takes advantage of them. They’ll complain about him, yet they’ll stay in a relationship with him for years. And if they finally do…
people in bad relationships are people in bad relationships. the main problem is that people are too small and their communication is poor. and once you’re past a certain point with someone it’s hard to just stop living your the life why you’ve grown accustomed to.what about the asshole guys? you think they are comming out on top don’t you? because they have a girlfriend? no, their lives are just as bad because they revolve around a bad relationship that is wasting both of their time andd making both of them look like bad people.
and there is more to it than that! WAY MORE.
please accept that everything you just wrote is wrong
Saying a generalized statement like “most women like to be treated like crap” is just as shitty as when girls say “all men are douche bags.” I can speak for myself and most of the female population when I say we don’t like being treated like we’re low-lives. Yes, there are some girls that put up with shit from bad guys, but that’s how we learn right from wrong. You learn life lessons from your own mistakes. I have been in enough bad relationships in my past to know how I deserve to be treated now. The girls that put up with bullshit from men haven’t learned how to respect themselves yet, or they are too afraid to leave. But that should never be an excuse not to leave someone. A man should never make a woman feel fear. The reason girls go for “bad guys” in my opinion is because we like the chase, just as much as any of you men like chasing a woman. The challenge of obtaining someone else is exciting and keeps you on your toes. And maybe if you can’t seem to get a girl to be interested in you then you should probably step up your game, or take the hint that she’s just not that into you.Well you misquoted me, I said “a lot of women” not “most women” like you said I said. I think you made a few good points (had I actually been generalizing) but you also proved my point, I never said why they like to be treated like crap, I think it’s sad that a lot of them are so use to it and it’s the only thing they know, but does that mean I should change who I am and treat them like crap because that’s what they are accustom to, because some asshole guy broke them, I should break them too? No, way. I think you assume way too much, about a thought I had. I wasn’t saying it’s their fault for craving being treated like that, I was saying unfortunately for a lot of women that’s just the way it is, so I guess I’ll just have to deal with it.
that isn’t what she said. she was saying they don’t like to be treated like crap. your initial point is untrue. what she said was they end up dealing with being treated like crap. yourn(incorrect) view is limiting your grasp of what is really going on.
I disagree, I think some of them do like it. I’ve literally heard a girl say once in regards to a guy they broke up with: “yeah, he was too nice; my first boyfriend may have been controlling and a jerk, but at least he wasn’t all girly like him” (or something very very similar in affect) a lot of them associate being a prick with manliness, and associate manliness with attractiveness, it may be due to crap they’ve gone through, but they are none the less are drawn to it.
People:
We should never explore emotions, everything is perfectly black and white, be completely correct at all times. Never say anything that’s exaggerated to get a point across. Think like me, don’t expose your humanity ever. Everybody is right, even those conflicting morals, unless their morals include pointing out that they don’t agree with someone else’s morals. Don’t ever say things that could vaguely imply that you are referring to a group that you do not belong to. History never repeats it’s self, never use statistics or things that you’ve seen happen a lot as a factor in an idea you have. Be perfect like us, don’t be down to earth and real.
I wish I could just not show up at work for a week or two
If I could just listen to Eisley all day and write lyrics, my life would be complete.
wellyouknow:
shackleford90:
So one thing I’ve observed over the years, is that a lot of women (whether they know it or not) love to be treated like crap. They’ll date a guy who belittles them and takes advantage of them. They’ll complain about him, yet they’ll stay in a relationship with him for years. And if they finally do…
people in bad relationships are people in bad relationships. the main problem is that people are too small and their communication is poor. and once you’re past a certain point with someone it’s hard to just stop living your the life why you’ve grown accustomed to.what about the asshole guys? you think they are comming out on top don’t you? because they have a girlfriend? no, their lives are just as bad because they revolve around a bad relationship that is wasting both of their time andd making both of them look like bad people.
and there is more to it than that! WAY MORE.
please accept that everything you just wrote is wrong
Saying a generalized statement like “most women like to be treated like crap” is just as shitty as when girls say “all men are douche bags.” I can speak for myself and most of the female population when I say we don’t like being treated like we’re low-lives. Yes, there are some girls that put up with shit from bad guys, but that’s how we learn right from wrong. You learn life lessons from your own mistakes. I have been in enough bad relationships in my past to know how I deserve to be treated now. The girls that put up with bullshit from men haven’t learned how to respect themselves yet, or they are too afraid to leave. But that should never be an excuse not to leave someone. A man should never make a woman feel fear. The reason girls go for “bad guys” in my opinion is because we like the chase, just as much as any of you men like chasing a woman. The challenge of obtaining someone else is exciting and keeps you on your toes. And maybe if you can’t seem to get a girl to be interested in you then you should probably step up your game, or take the hint that she’s just not that into you.
Well you misquoted me, I said “a lot of women” not “most women” like you said I said. I think you made a few good points (had I actually been generalizing) but you also proved my point, I never said why they like to be treated like crap, I think it’s sad that a lot of them are so use to it and it’s the only thing they know, but does that mean I should change who I am and treat them like crap because that’s what they are accustom to, because some asshole guy broke them, I should break them too? No, way. I think you assume way too much, about a thought I had. I wasn’t saying it’s their fault for craving being treated like that, I was saying unfortunately for a lot of women that’s just the way it is, so I guess I’ll just have to deal with it.
the cool thing about tumblr is nobody’s on it, so I can post gay shit like this:
So one thing I’ve observed over the years, is that a lot of women (whether they know it or not) love to be treated like crap. They’ll date a guy who belittles them and takes advantage of them. They’ll complain about him, yet they’ll stay in a relationship with him for years. And if they finally do breakup with him, they go straight for the next asshole who will treat them the same or worse. If they do actually go out with a nice and caring man, they’ll typically breakup with him quickly and pick a jerk instead. Maybe it’s just not manly to treat women with respect, and they find it attractive when a man talks to them like they’re a lower life form; but I refuse to change who I am and treat women like mere sex objects, so I guess I’ll just have to accept the fact that I’ll always be alone because of this. But hey, I’m okay with that, I guess.
I am going on 21 years of singleness and that does not make me broken, sad, unworthy, or less beautiful.
It means none of the lies I have told myself, none of the lies the world has shoved down on me. It does not mean that because I get lonely sometimes the only way to fix that is finding a…
I found this very encouraging, I’ve experienced a lot of similar emotions, and questioned God about why he seems to insist on keeping me single. Thank you for sharing this, it helps a lot.
C.S. Lewis does again! This is exactly how feel in regards to evolution/Adam & Eve, I’ve just never had a way to explain it as perfect as this.
“For long centuries, God perfected the animal form which was to become the vehicle of humanity and the image of Himself. he gave it hands whose thumb could be applied to each of the fingers, and jaws and teeth and throat capable of articulation, and a brain sufficiently complex to execute all of the material motions whereby rational thought is incarnated. The creature may have existed in this state for ages before it became man: it may even have been clever enough to make things which a modern archaeologist would accept as proof of its humanity. But it was only an animal because all its physical and psychical processes were directed to purely material and natural ends. Then, in the fullness of time, God caused to descend upon this organism, both on its psychology and physiology, a new kind of consciousness which could say “I” and “me,” which could look upon itself as an object, which knew God, which could make judgments of truth, beauty and goodness, and which was so far above time that it could perceive time flowing past…. We do not know how many of these creatures God made, nor how long they continued in the Paradisal state. But sooner or later they fell. Someone or something whispered that they could become as gods…. They wanted some corner in this universe of which they could say to God, “This is our business, not yours.” But there is no such corner. They wanted to be nouns, but they were, and eternally must be, mere adjectives. We have no idea in what particular act, or series of acts, the self-contradictory, impossible wish found expression. For all I can see, it might have concerned the literal eating of a fruit, the the question is of no consequence.” - C.S. Lewis (Problem of Pain, 68-71)
